STOP

I'm not a perfect manner

But it's ok if want to be right??

I want to change

Please forgive me for my changes

Please stop influence on me

and i really hope for your changes too mydear

nurul

U r The Gold One

I really miss our moment together...really do...

We not meet bout a year..

But i hope dis long of period will not change our friendship

and...Dis is from u....thanx 4 dis card

and u said that.....

Make a new friends

But keep the old

One is Silver and others is Gold...

and this one...pokok kesayangan sy...its still alive...like our friendship

given by her..thanx...

with love

nurul

cinta

u r my love

nobody ask me to sayang kamu

nobody forced me to cinta kamu

don't worry, i have love for u now

n only one u need to noe...

my love is sincere

SY SUKA JADI SAHABAT AWAK

hii..hii..n hii...lama sgt x berblog sejak dr my first entry..sibuk n sgt2 xda mood utk berblog..bt today tiba2 ader feeling nk menaip someting 4 my blog..

Last 2 weeks sy br je habiskan masa dengan teman2 akrab..kami semua ader 7 org. masing2 duduk jauh..ader yg stdy n ader yg da kerja..so, kami plan cuti sem n ink gather n habiskan masa sama2. Yg kerja or yg jauh 2 kena la ambik cuti kn…dan kami kena kosongkan jadual masing2 pd tarikh yg ditetapkan..bukan slalu pn..so masing2 x kesah..

We all kalau gather akan cari 1 tempat yg xramai orang, yg boleh lepak dr pg hr ni sampai ptg hr esok.yer la bkn senang nk jumpa masing2. So dr hr pertama smpai hr ke dua tu kami akan share story bout masing2, share masalah masing2 dan kami akan kongsi rahsia masing2. Lepas 2ktorg akan bagi pendapat. Kira mcm sesi luah perasaan la kn..4 me, dorg ni lah sahabat yg sangat selesa untuk berbual tentang hati dan perasaan atau aper2 shj. dorg sgt open. Dorang sentiasa ada bila diperlukan or memerlukan…….dan sbb ini la sy tergerak hati nk tulis entry bertajuk “ Bagaimana untuk Menjadi Seorang Sahabat yang Baik”…haaa……BAIK terlalu subjektif kn..??mungkin juga seorang sahabat yang disenangi..??

BAIK/DISENANGI disini bermaksud:
•Disukai
•Pendengar yang baik
•Peneman yang setia
•Pandai atur bicara
•Saling bantu membantu
•Senang susah bersama

4 me this is very2 important bcz beside my family, the 1st persons dat r more important is friends.(hoo…sanggat tinggi kedudukan mereka, tp hati2 dgn member yg suka mengencing ya…)…then…barulah kekasih…(sorry kekasih..heee) but sahabat ni mestilah somebody yag dapat fulfill the criteria as a “GOOD” friends. Tp normal jgk la kalau sahabat2 kita ni buat salah…nobody is perfect.
So….how to be….????hmm..sy da conclude kn beberapa cara utk menjadi seorang sahabat yang disenangi..boleh baca…yg mana sesuai boleh dijadikan panduan…yg mana x boleh masukkan dalam tong sampah terus..=)

1.GRAB FASTER

Macam mana plk kn..?? Jangan sesekali pura2 atau buat2 dengar. If ur friend has a problem and they need u to share, here u r…awk mestilah ikhlas mendengar masalah sahabat 2. Pandang tepat pada mata kawan yg sedang bercakap. Tapi kalau awak btul2 sibuk, bagi tahu kawan 2 baik2 dan cakap “ I’ll call u back ASAP” ni la maksudnya jagan pura2 mendengar..

2.CONTROL UR SELF AND JGN SYIOKK SENDIRI
Haaa…..ni agak ramai la kn…sibuk story tentang diri sendiri sampai x perasan member sebelah da mengguap sampai meleleh air mata. Bagi peluang jgk dkt member2 lain utk bercakap. Atau cakap 2 berpada2 la…takut member2 kita xda masa nk dengar lama2 masalah kita ni. Kalau kita dapat control, harap2 member2 yg lain jgk senag bila berkawan dgn kita..

3.CONTROL RASA MARAH
Kadang2 bila da bercerita, masing2 ader jgk pendapat yang berbeza2..kadang2 benda ni semua yg boleh merosakan hubungan antara sahabat. Jadi cuba kawal perasaan. Jangan cepat melenting. Kalau member silap cakap cuba tegur baik2. Atau lebih baik diam diri sebab kita tahu ubat bagi marah adalah dengan diam.

4.BELAJAR MENDENGAR PENDAPAT
Kalau kita nk bertahan lama dengan sahabat2 kita, belajarlah mendengar pendapat org lain. Ingat!! Mendengar tidak sama dengan menerima! Bila kita dah dengar pendapat member2 kita, terpulang lah pada kita untuk membuta keputusan sama ada hnya utk mendengar atau menerima. Selalunya kawan2 kita x kan marah kalau kita x menerima, tetapi mereka lebih menghargai kalau kita bagi peluang untuk mereka meluahkan pendapat =)

with love
nurul

My first entry: Just a baby step

Hi people...
I'm new here...since tgk my friends masing2 da ada blog sndri aku pun terasa nk buat jgk...but i'm very buzzy lately so kalau da buat mst kena focus n mengadap benda ni kn...??hoo....bt now aku da buat...so where do i start??
maybe with this poem
(bayang2 untuk kamu tentang diri saya)
hope u all like it..

All my life is...Family..
Family is a kind of people
I have mama who always worries about me
I have ayah who always protect me
I have two sister who are sweet and naughty
Family is sad and happy
We are like flower seem to bloom forever and very pure
Thanks GOD for present me this family

A part of my life is......Friends..
Friendship is home for every friend
It is so precious
I have best friends
I have good friends
I have nice friends
I have joy friends

I have weird
I have bad friends and....even enemy
But they are still my friends
Because I just need to act as what I should
But only a part of them can be a part of my home friendship
They who are know etiquette of friends
Thanks to them

A part of my life is...Him..
Love is bitter
Love is sweet
I wish can be a good partner for you
And I just hope that I can get the same as what I give to you

Dream for a while of my life...
I dream to have a beautiful journey
But days sometimes have a sunshine, rain and rainbow
I do understand this..
But there is still has a hope
Hope that I can proud to be my self
Hope for the happiness until the end...even sometimes can't never so...

with love
nurul